In this revealing book, over 100 New Zealand mothers speak from the heart about their real-life experiences of motherhood. Leanne McKenzie and Gail Thomas asked women from all over New Zealand to contribute to the book, and the response was impressive, from teenage mothers to grandmothers, and from a range of ethnic backgrounds. With honesty and good humour, they describe experiences both rare and commonplace, from everyday joys and laughter to extraordinary struggles and tragedy. There are stories about childbirth, about weaning and infancy, about parenting young children and raising difficult teenagers. Among the subjects covered are preparing for a homebirth, caring for a disabled child, solo parenting, family holidays, rural isolation, motherhood versus career and coping with child death. Many of the stories offer encouragement and reassurance, others practical advice and guidance. Mothers everywhere will respond to the honest sharing of thoughts and feelings, hopes and disappointments, in this entertaining and inspiring celebration of New Zealand motherhood.
ABOUT THE AUTHORS Leanne McKenzie worked in public relations and Gail Thomas as an osteopath before motherhood took over most of their time. They both live in Auckland.
Reviews
‘This collection of real experiences has something for every mum to relate to . . . the stories are often compelling — all have something to share. A book like this one, where mothers talk in their own words about their feelings and experiences, can be very helpful to other women in their own child-rearing role. But it’s not just an entertaining and informative read, Doing Our Best is a piece of our social history too.’ Woman’s Weekly
‘A realistic insight into motherhood, and a good read for women (and men) of all ages. It may even help teenagers on the verge of adulthood to understand their mothers just a little better.’ Hauraki Herald
SPECIFICATIONS
Size: 210 x 135mm
Format: Paperback
Extent: 238 pages
Weight: 350 gms
First published: May 2003
ISBN: 978-0-908988-27-3
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